This is my second pregnancy. My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage and then we had difficulty conceiving after and underwent fertility treatments to achieve this little miracle. I’m also considered high risk with this pregnancy.

I’m scared to plan for the baby. I can’t bring myself to work on/plan the nursery, start a registry, talk to family and friends about a shower. My mother-in-law got us a few items for Christmas for the baby and it worried me that she was like jinxing the pregnancy.

I don’t know how to overcome these feelings. Should I wait longer to do all these planning activities? I see other Mommas on here getting the nursery ready/planning showers/registering and I’m just wondering if I should just get over it or is this normal and can I wait longer? Any words of advice/encouragement is greatly appreciated!