How do y'all get the Hope's up to try and try again?

I feel like I might just give up. Not give up on children but the stress of ttc is too much. To do everything right and still have a negative. And I've only tried a couple of months in a row each time.

However, I am worried about recurrent miscarriages. After 2 miscarriages, what if I only have a pregnancy a year or less without ttc, and then what if I miscarry all those pregnancies. However, even if I do ttc, I don't know if I could handle all those miscarriages together....

I feel like this is a lose lose situation.