My husband spent all our money last year. I mean all of it. He made $75,000 last year and it’s all gone. Minus our monthly expenses which round out to be about $1600 each month (bills, food, diapers, gas, cigarettes) it was all wasted. He spent $100 a week on weed. He would eat out everyday for lunch despite me making his lunches. He would eat expensively on weekends when he had to work. We did spend $600 on Christmas all around but that’s nothing. I only buy the essentials, no extra stuff. I haven’t got a haircut all year, I cut my daughters hair, I get all our clothes from thrift shops. I spend bare minimum. But it’s all gone. I just sold majority of my clothes this money, I sold all my old daughters clothes, I sold majority of my makeup and majority of my paintings to get extra money. We just paid all our bills today with his check he got this money and we only have $5 bucks in our account. We have $100 in cash from me selling all my stuff. He is stressed because we’re broke but he is the one who did this. I kept moving money into savings but he would just move it back or take it and use it. So now next Thursday we owe $1300 to his union for his Initiation and we don’t have it. He has always been awful with money, he gets it from his dad, but this year was his worst year with spending. I’m hoping this is a wake up call. I’m selling all my stuff and looking for babysitters so I can go and get a part time serving job to help pay for things.

I just needed to rant. I love him but fuck has he done it this time.