So let me start off by saying I love love and and I would love to get married one day, it just seems like recently I’ve been hearing so many negative things. People just talking crap about their SO,saying they aren’t the same person after marriage or after kids and i know people aren’t gonna be the same person you met in your 20s when you’re in your 30s but it just seems like people are less respectful to one another after getting married and are not as happy. I would hate to be unhappy AFTER i get married so I kinda feel like “what the hell is the point!”