I’ve always been around fake people. I used to live with my mom who was toxic and I eventually left to live with my dad full time and thought everything was falling into place until lastnight... I met my boyfriend after work and we decided that we were going out to dinner that night because we hadn’t seen each other for a while and wanted some alone time away from our families, because we spend most of our time around our families. Anyways so I text my dad and ask if we can go to dinner and he’s like yeah that’s fine so we come home and I’m getting ready, and apparently the whole time my step sister has this bitchy attitude because she thinks we should have to stay home and eat and the fact that “foods not cheap” and she already thawed out enough meet for burgers so she’ll have to put it back in the fridge and talking about how I’m so wasteful, mind you I’m sitting here eating a leftover burger right now for lunch. It’s not like the food will go to waste because we will all eat one for lunch? Then my actual sister texts me after we leave for dinner and says that she is going on about how since she’s been home from college she’s never saw me clean or help out and I don’t listen to my dad... she must be fucking blind because when my dad told her and I to clean the kitchen before we left to go to our boyfriends houses one weekend I cleaned more than half of the kitchen to be nice to her. I also just cleaned half of the kitchen the other night. My other point is she doesn’t live here anymore and we don’t cook dinner like she does or we used to. We cook something easy and quick with minimal clean up because that’s what works for use. When she cooks she cook a full fledge meal, which is nice, but she dirties every pan and pot she can find and uses unnecessary dishes... like of course I’m not going to clean up after you when you purposely dirty every dish you can find. Sorry for the long post and there is so much more to this story but i don’t want to make it any longer lol. I’m fed up to the max with her and at this point I’m just not talking to her. I don’t know how I’m supposed to cut off a step sister but I plan on it soon because I don’t have time for shit talkers in my life who are scared to say it to my face. Advice would be nice