I always thought once I had got pregnant I would have things in a certain order. 1) I would be living with the father lol. We are planning on it just waiting for his new job in another state. 2) thought I'd be married. Been with him for 6 years and we feel married we just never planned a wedding. 3) I thought I'd name the baby if a boy after my mom's first born that she lost due to SIDs. But as time passes I feel like finding my babies own name. 4) the idea of having a girl was too terrifying to contemplate. But now I'd would absolutely love what ever it happened to be just hope for a healthy baby. I also love the idea of my man totally bewitched by our daughter. So yeah it's crazy how much things change from how you always envisioned them.