Y’all am I GAY lemmeknowthanks

I’m sooo worried that I’m a lesbian. I’m dating the absolute perfect man who treats me amazing and we have so much in common. But he has never turned me on in any way. Sex is such a chore for me (he never forces me ps) and I get a lot of pleasure from looking at women. But I’ve had boyfriends in the past who did turn me on and get me going with whom I enjoyed sex with. I’ve had the thought that I could be gay in the back of my mind for like 2 years and I’m freaking out.