Two miscarriages

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Courtney

I have had two miscarriages one in September and the other in December. I am just wondering if anyone else has experience this. Also how long they waited before trying for a third time? I kinda feel like I dont want to keep trying this last time was super hard on me. I have pcos. we have been trying for over two years. I'm just not sure I can handle another loss. If you have experience this is there anything you changed like weight or anything like that? Thanks in advance!

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Li

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Hi, I was TTC for 6 years, had 3 miscarriages in this time. I finally gave up as I felt It mustn’t be my time or just not meant to be and concentrated on myself and my family. I started doing a spin class and lost 1 and a half stone and felt relief that I wasn’t pulling a test out every time I missed a period (due to my PCOS) I think the mixture of not actually trying anymore and maybe keeping fit finally did the trick for me, I’m going to be 28 weeks tomorrow so fingers crossed for a happy healthy baby 🤞 wishing you lots of luck and happiness xx

Ki

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I also had PCOS and was put on metaphormin. Last year we had 2 miscarriages and I felt like I needed some time. We waited 6 months and got pregnant again. We both agreed that they were really hard and if this one didn’t work out we would be happy how we were. Now I am 35 weeks pregnant and having a little girl in February! Miscarriages are really hard but healthy pregnancy can happen after them

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Courtney • Jan 6, 2019
Thank you this helps a lot!

Ra

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I have had a total of 10 miscarriages. Most recent was shortly after Thanksgiving. I got a surprise BFP over New Year's without having a period between. So no waiting for us. My OB says you have a better chance of concieving within the firts 3 months following a MC. Its just a matter of when you and your SO are in a good place mentally to start trying again.

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Marie • May 7, 2020
Did you ever find out why you were having MC’s?

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Rachael • Jan 7, 2019
The 4 in 2018 were January, April, June, and November. (3 chemicals and one at 8 weeks)

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Rachael • Jan 7, 2019
I had 4 in 2018. Then other 6 were over 4 years while TTC my daughter. With the first 6, I waited a few month in between before trying again. This time, I haven't waited as much because I really don'twant to take 6 years to have another little one.