Marriage after baby.

I’ll be the first to admit I know my relationship is toxic. My husband is controlling and belittling. He constantly calls me names. Everything is my fault. I can’t even go to my brothers birthday party today because my husband says no one can hold him. I’m tired of trying to explain to other people that it’s my husbands rules. He doesn’t seem to care about me and my son. He wants me to return to work so he can quit his job he’s had for 3 months. I guess what I’m trying to get at here is I need positive stories about women who made it out of abusive relationships...