Why can't I orgasm? Why can't I find pleasure?

For the longest time, I could never get myself to orgasm. And I don't even have a clue. I also cannot for the life of me find masturbating pleasurable. Like I don't feel turned on enough. I could feel so in the moment but when I actually do something...it just doesn't feel like much or it just turned me off...that I am not aroused.

Is there a way to fix this?

Because I want to enjoy it. I want to be able to enjoy it with a guy in the future so we both can have fun. I don't want to worry about how it is not wet enough down there or having it feel like I'm not fully aroused and having fun and where it feels that I don't feel much anymore...I take a long break without playing with myself but it's the same thing...