Need Encouragement

Okay, so I know this is going to be hard. But I have come to a decision with my relationship. My husband and I have been fighting and miserable and have talked a million times and never changed any thing. I’ve vented and nothing, he’s vented and nothing. So we came to a decision after our millions of discussions to be roommates instead of a couple, to take a break because nothing else works and we both need it. We are very young, I’m turning 21 soon and he’ll be 20 in May. We weren’t as ready as we thought to be married right now. I told him I believe we are meant to be together, just not at this point when we aren’t mentally mature. As much as we love each other, it’s not our time yet. So we are taking a break. I know it’ll be hard, and that I will want to not do it but I know deep down this is what we need. I have faith when the time is right we will come back together. But for now we are roommates until one of us can be on our own. I need some encouragement because I know I’m doing the right thing, I just don’t feel like it is at this moment, but yet I know it is. If you’re just going to throw hate at me, there’s a back button to look at other topics and posts. Feel free to look at my profile for background information if you want it, I’m not ashamed.