How do I love my bump?

Hey guys. I literally just found out I was as pregnant today... I've been losing weight to get pregnant and well it worked! I only lost 1st of the 7st I wanted to shift, so I'm still not happy with my body. Now I'm pregnant and I'm struggling to see how I will love my stomach when I get massive :( I'm dreading stepping on the scales now because I know that number will increase so much. I'm 5ft 5, around 230lbs, only 4wks right now and the bloating is real :o