Am I wrong for being upset?

I’m not all about materialistic things, but this really bugged me, well more like hurt my feelings.

So 2 weeks before Christmas we went shopping for both sides of our family my mother-in-law got upset at her other sons wife, because of something she said to her about her son. So she said she wasn’t spending Christmas with us or them. (We were spending it together) so my boyfriend and I go to his brothers house and we’re there they call their mom to go she said no I’m not going ok that was that so we didn’t hear from her up until yesterday. She never called to say happy new year. Not that I care but to them it bugged them a lot.

So I didn’t get a single gift from my boyfriend not even for our daughter. Okay whatever moneys right. I get it, but he tells me so I got something I say what is it? He pulls out a custom glass with my mother-in-laws name engraved and some dolphins also custom made. And he’s like you think she’ll like them? “I know I didn’t get you or bear (our daughter) anything but she’s my mom she needed something” we had already bought her some clothes a purse and a perfume set that was about 80$ just on her.

I just said whatever so do I return the gifts she never came for or what? And he said no you idiot I’m giving her everything so I asked how much was what you got her today he said about 100$ and i said okay, sad how I asked you to take me to Walmart and get socks and diapers for bear and you said you didn’t have money, but you blew 100$ just like that. I am a stay at home mom, so he has the only source of income. I’m starting to think I need to get a job and purchase my daughters necessities since he’s gonna blow money on his mom whenever and however he pleases.