Am I overreacting???

My boyfriend and I are long distance. The last time we saw each other was 5 months ago. I finally made the move and we are now living together. I arrived three days ago. The first night we got in late and went to bed immediately. Then he left early in the morning for work. Then the second night we had to go to his family’s house to return a car. We ended up staying there because he didn’t want to take the train back since it was late... fine so we had to sleep in the room with his nephew. Then last night Saturday, finally I thought we were going to get some alone time. He was out running an errand and texts me and says his friend will be joining us for dinner. I said okay that’s fine. I thought to myself it’s fine it’s just dinner then he’ll leave and we can finally be alone and spend quality time together. Well dinner was over and they started drinking. Couple hours go by and and it’s 10pm now and his friend is still there. Then they say ok let’s go out and get a drink. I was in my pajamas at that point and I said no, right in front of his friend. My boyfriend kept pushing me so finally I give in and we go to a bar. I’m pretty pissed off cause it’s been 5 months, third night with him and we still haven’t had sex lol. But really I just wanted a nice night in with him dinner and watch a movie and lay in bed and just be lazy. So the night goes on. My boyfriend and his friend are pretty drunk. And at the end of the night that really pissed me off.. my boyfriends drunk dumbass friend was comparing girls he’s dated in the past and he says to me (and idk why) “you’re pretty but you’re not ‘wow’” I didn’t even know what to say i just was shocked by how rude that was.. like why would someone say that??? My boyfriend was too drunk to notice. When we finally got home, i went to the bathroom and I came back to the room and he was sound asleep. I write this the morning after. I don’t even know how to proceed because I know the first two nights were pretty reasonable but last night was totally unfair I feel like. And now he leaves today on a trip he planned the day before I came because of some document thing. I was very upset that he didn’t invite me when I’ve told him previously I wanted to visit the place and he knew that. Ugh I just feel like he doesn’t even care I’m here.