Baby Daddy Issues & I need help. š
Iām currently 33 weeks and 2 days pregnant due March 1 with my baby boy. The babyās father and I have been split up since I was 6 weeks pregnant because he cheated on me with the girl that he is currently engaged to. He has also gotten her pregnant and is due with their baby boy May 20. They are pot/pill heads. She keeps getting in trouble by her doctor because her urinalysis always comes back dirty. The baby daddy messages me MAYBE once a month. But every time he does he asks how IāM doing and expects me to tell him every detail of my life. And gets mad when I donāt. He hasnāt asked if I needed help with anything, which I donāt Iāve gotten everything by myself without his help, but I wouldnāt mind him asking. He doesnāt even have anything for his house. When he does message it always turns into an argument. Doesnāt matter how civil I try to be. Iām not going to tell him when Iām in labor and still debating if I even want him to come to the hospital. The baby isnāt going to have his last name and I donāt want him on the birth certificate. He says he cares and that he is going to be there. But I donāt believe one word of it because he hasnāt done anything to prove it. He knows NOTHING about a baby. Especially a newborn. Iām just trying to do whatās best for my baby. I donāt want him around pot smoke or even cigarette smoke. The baby daddy was a former meth addict. He still associates and hangs out with all of his dope friends too. Thatās all he does ALL day long. Is smoke pot, dabs, take/snort pills, does acid from time to time. He even sells the shit. And drinks all the time. He tries to act like some wannabe āthug.ā His priorities are drugs. He was definitely NOT my type and I have no idea why on earth I got with him and stayed with him for that matter. I guess I was just scared because he was kind of abusive. Not so much physically. But he was emotionally and mentally. And if he didnāt get what he wanted, he made it happen... but Iām the complete opposite and have my head on my shoulders. Plan on going to college soon. And can pass any kind of drug test any given day. I donāt even have a history of drugs. Hell I hardly even drink alcohol (when I wasnāt pregnant). I donāt want my baby boy to be around any of the crap that his father associates with. & I know itās horrible to say, but a part of me doesnāt even want him around his father.. I want sole custody. With or without supervised visitation. Iām just so lost on what to do & what right thing to do is. Iām absolutely petrified. Any help, guidance, & advice would be so appreciated...Thank you so much.šā¤ļø
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