This is my 3rd pregnancy, second baby ( miscarried around 12-13 weeks with the last). I'm considering getting my tubes tied simply because both of my babies will have been unplanned/unexpected and my husband is a huge ass when I'm pregnant. I know it's due in part to my pregnancies coming at the worst times, but he makes them absolutely miserable. He asks me how I feel only to complain about his own aches and pains, gets quickly frustrated to the point that I'm depressed, and shows little to no excitement or concern about the pregnancy/baby. Now, I know once baby is born he flips a complete switch and even puts me to shame with how loving and involved he becomes... I want one more baby, one happy pregnancy. But I just can't handle another unexpected pregnancy or his resulting attitude.

Has anyone felt this way and regretted getting their tubes tied/not getting them tied?