Do you ever deny your partner/spouse sex if they’re in the mood and you’re not?

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I’m doing this poll because my poor husband thinks he’s the only one who gets denied by his spouse for sex because I’m not always in the mood when he is.

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Forcing yourself to have sex when not aroused will form an unhealthy relationship with sex. There are other options for your husband and being denied sex shouldn’t be taken personal especially if the person is not in the mood. He will learn to live.

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If I don’t want it then nobody can convince me to have it. If someone won’t take NO for an answer I will report them for rape, end of.

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I think you have to compromise and be reasonable when in a relationship. Find a middle ground for both. Ex: if you only feel it once a months and him every day maybe once a week is reasonable for both. 
Also, denying sex to get revenge is not ok. 
Happy and healthy middle ground for everybody is what you want!

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I have a high sex drive, so I don’t say no often, but I have. I think it’s about compromise. There have been times I haven’t been in the mood and still had sex, and times he hasn’t been in the mood and still had sex. If I were to say “no absolutely not today” he would respect it and vice versa.

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I’m always in the mood.. it’s my partner that sometimes turns me down.

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It is completely normal not to be in sync when you guys want to have sex and he needs to respect that. I wouldnt be with someone who didnt respect my right to say no or was stupid enough to think or say that hes the only one.

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So my husband has a lower sex drive than me because he gets pretty stressed at times, so generally he says no to me. So when he dose initiate sex I very rarely say no (usually if im not feeling well)
I don't think its a bad thing to have sex if you aren't "in the mood" but thats up to you, you decide to concent and your partner should take no for an answer. Im not saying that anyone has to have sex every time its initiated, but if your partner wants sex everyday and you only want sex once a year (extreme example) then its not fair to expect him to never have sex. You need to both give a little because it wouldn't be fair to you to have sex everyday either.

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lol oh your poor husband. 😒😂 You are not obligated to give him sex just because he is in the mood and he needs to respect that.

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Usually I'm the one getting denied because he doesn't wanna have sex.

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I’ve had sex with my husband sometimes when I’m not in the mood and vice versa but sometimes I just really don’t feel like it so I’ll deny

Do you ever deny your partner/spouse sex if they’re in the mood and you’re not?

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