Spice things up !

Soo, my husband have been trying to spice things up a little, we don’t have time alone that often, we have a 2 year old and a 8month old baby ! .. he works away and comes home on the weekends. Ive sent him some pictures 😉 he wants a sexy videoo, soo i sometimes feel uncomfortable in my body, and dont feel secure, i feel too thiin and i dont like it !!! but i’d like to do it ! I just dont know how lol ! I do really wanna spice things up more ! Also when he’s here we find a way to get a little time for us, what have you ladies done to attract your husband? What other things do you do to spice up your marriage?