My baby is 3 months old. And it took me 2 years to be able to conceive. It was HARD after all the shots and all the let downs. I even had surgery to get pregnant. Well now my husband wants me to get on birth control which I’m strongly against. I’m not doing that. Well he says he doesn’t want another baby right now.. okay. Well use condoms right? He said he has never used a condom so why should he have to? We’re literally arguing over me not wanting to be on birth control. I got on birth control at 14 to help my periods and was on my period A MONTH straight and I have endometriosis.. it was awful and really painful. Ladies what do I do?

Edit: I wouldn’t mind having another baby is the thing because it took me forever to have my little one.. He doesn’t have fertility issues, I do. I really just don’t believe it birth control. When I’m done having babies, I’ll get my tubes tied 🤷🏼‍♀️ I guess I’m that way because I went through the shots, I went through surgery, I went through all the pain and he didn’t. I don’t want to risk it.