Help!!!! Am i weird??/how to help with the bf

I’m 17 soon to be 18 and it wasn’t til like 5 months ago that i started trying to masturbate...I’d never don’t it before and after several weeks of failure i finally figured it out. The thing is 1) in the last month I’ve found a recent uptick in the number of times I do it a week and I’d say anywhere between 5-7 times a week (usually at night) and I’m not sure why, but is that weird?? Is that too much? I’m trying to figure stuff out to help my bf, which leads me to #2) how do I get him to help me finish? He’s willing to try different things I just can’t figure out what I need... not to be too graphic but we’ve done oral like fingering but that’s it... we’ve been together a year and a half and we’ve been doing stuff for a little over half that time and I can’t figure it out. Both of us are (technically 🤔) virgins in that we’ve never had penetrative sex, but he’s my first ever bf and I’m the only one he’s ever done anything beyond 2nd base with...