Today I realized something amazing.

I love the guy im with but we got into our first real fight and he hasn't talked to me for four days. I sent him a text yesterday saying I'm sorry and I love you and he completely ignored it. I used to do things to get his attention and I used to care about his opinion. But I am not wasting my time on that anymore, now any decision I make will be for me not him, I will not try to get his attention anymore he is just gonna have to put in the effort or I'm done. I don't need him to be happy and it took me a while to realise that, I don't need him to feel whole, the only person I need is myself. BE YOURSELF LADIES ❤❤❤ we are all perfect and I for one don't need a man to feel good about my self any more. Its his turn to try.