So I'm not sure where to post this but I need to just get it off my chest.

So I am currently 14 weeks pregnant. I have had 4 miscarriages in the past. 3 of which happened in 2018. My boyfriend already has a son with his ex. And unfortunately isn't able to be in his life due to his family and his ex. Long messed up story but anyways...we are currently pregnant again. This will be our 4th attempt together. Having list our last baby on June 26th. Well his ex is also pregnant now too with some guy who has already left her. My boyfriend's family is now buying her baby gifts!? I could understand if she had no one in her life, being pregnant is a big deal especially if you're doing it alone, but she lives with her dad, sister, and grandmother. She also has 4 older brothers who are all active in her life. Not ONCE has his family reached out to me to check on our baby. Their next grandchild. Not once. But they're buying things for the ex? I feel like that's just a big slap to my face. Like they CLEARLY couldn't give a rats ass. Today his sister who I've tried to message and who had been flat out ignoring me but mind you continually is posting to Facebook decided today she would tag the ex in some pregnancy posts. Today I posted about being 14 weeks which is a huge deal for us (we have never made it this far) doesn't like it or anything. I just feel like can you make it any more obvious you don't care? I feel like once this baby is born his family just isn't going to be apart of our lives which makes me sad. But at the same time why should I be the one reaching out to them. They could at least have the decency to ask me how my ultrasounds are going. But nope can't even ask. But yet they've also been going with his ex to her appointments. Maybe I'm being irrational maybe it's the hormones I just know I'm over it and feeling like I'm not good enough or that my baby their grandchild isn't going to measure up to the exes new baby.