How to use ovulation test!!

It’s gonna be our first month ttc starting February 1st I started ovulation test using easy @home brand this month just to verify if my apps were predicting correctly. I got a solid POSITIVE Ov test a day earlier then my apps predicted. All that being said when should you have sex before or after your positive ?? I’ve seen every other day leading up to positive and everyday once you get a positive for 4 days???? Any input?

Also have you ever been convinced that because you want something soooo bad your not gonna get it??? Is it dumb??