I am feeling like a complete and total bitch right now. My bf and I got approved for our new place yesterday. We are moving in Saturday. This morning, he tells me that his sister will need to move in with us. I said no. I’m a really private person who has a hard time sharing a space with my own relatives. Visitation is fine for a week or a weekend but moving there is a no. I feel awful. I know this will create tension between his sister and I which will change how the family views me. I told him to let me think some more but I don’t appreciate having that dropped on me so suddenly. He says it’ll be temporary but we know how that goes. I was so excited about us getting our own place together. Now this. I don’t want to be tiptoeing around in my home. This puts a huge strain on us both ways. If I say no, his family will definitely have a problem with it. I don’t want to be in a relationship where I’m disliked by family. My own family is broken so it’s important to me to be in a good family environment. If I say yes, I’m going to be unhappy which will also put a strain on our relationship. It doesn’t help that his mom already feels negatively about me because we are not of the same culture. But the rest of his family has loved me so far. Am I being a bitch? Should I give it a shot. 😪

ETA: She was supposed to be moving in with her bf. They’ve been planning it for a while. She’s been with him longer than my bf and I have been together. Suddenly she doesn’t want to move in with him anymore because they’re not seeing eye to eye on some things. However they won’t be breaking up. So she “needs” to come and stay with us.