So I’ve been married for 5 years. I had to quit my job when I became pregnant with our first child together back in 2017. I’m now 13 weeks pregnant with our second together. He lost his job in November. Since then...all he does is sleep all day and all night. Not once has he ever gotten up in the middle of the night to feed the baby. I had surgery and was on crutches and still had to do everything myself. Any time I ask for help around the house he says I’m not his mom and I don’t tell him what to do. Mind you I’m 26..he’s 36. He has an 11 year old from a previous marriage that I take care of when we have him bc he just sleeps. He calls me bitch 24/7. My problem is I have no job, no family to stay with, I feel stuck. I want to leave soooo bad but I have no where to go. I’ve called for housing but due to the government shut down I haven’t received a call back. Idk what to do!!!! Also I’ve been trying to earn some money by crocheting but he takes everything I make. He gives me $20 out of his unemployment and calls it my “allowance”. He refuses to put me on his bank account even though we are married so I’m completely reliant on him financially.