Take this with a grain of salt... From what I’ve seen, it doesn’t feel like anyone is committed to anything anymore. That a marriage or even a relationship means nothing to people anymore. I scroll through here and see things like “he watches porn, what should I do?”, with people telling her to “throw the whole man away”. Does no one want to sit down and work it out? Talk about it, communicate, try to work together over things that are a little bump. In reality, the problem can, most of the time, be nothing in comparison to the time and effort the two of you put into the relationship.

Now, I firmly believe some issues do require throwing the whole man away, cheating being one of them.

BUT I don’t understand. Is there really no willingness to work anything out anymore and put in that effort? To me, that seems like your marriage vows, or even just saying “i love you” is a lie and a waste as soon as you hit a bump in the road. Ladies, tell me your thoughts, am I missing something here? I don’t think a whole man needs to be thrown if he makes one human error as long as it’s within reason and your vows.

Edit: Let me make sure I’ve made one thing clear, I understand some people can’t help it, and there is nothing wrong with leaving someone over something you just can’t change. If that’s what needs to happen, by all means, and to each their own. If you have an argument that CAN be changed with extra effort, I hate to see people throw it all away over that because they don’t ever see the extra effort as worth it. People naturally change over time, but I think there is a reason baby boomers and before have marriages lasting over 50 years, but the current gen can’t. Again, to each their own, I have no room to judge. If anything, I’m addressing the lack of communication and willingness to throw in the towel over silly things. Ladies, we are strong, never let anyone put you down for anything!