The thing I found best was to calculate when you ovulate and then me and my partner tried to have sex on each of them days, even a couples days after.

I just listened to my body some days too, I could kinda guess when I was going to ovulate, as I would get cramps and my boobs would ache. Plus, this is a bit tmi but when my discharge was clear and stretchy, that's the perfect time to have sex as this is usually when a women is most fertile.

Then I would always lie on my back with my hips up, for at least 5 mins straight after sex, as it ensures it just doesn't come straight out 😐

One thing I will say too, I believe that your partners health is very important too. My partner has a physically demanding job and gets tired a lot because of it and i noticed when he is like that it didn't happen. But once he started looking after himself abit more (& me) , by drinking more water, eating less fatty food it kinda started to happen for us, even though I did miscarry.

When I did this altogether, I got pregnant the same month. I did unfortunately miscarry and then the month after that, was only 5/6 weeks both times. Then 2 months after that I got pregnant again, and luckily still pregnant now, 4months today!!

Hope this all helps, I understand how you feel 🙏🙏

Good luck with everything and just try not to stress, the one time I tried not to worry and just go with it, it happened! 😊👶🤰♥️

MONTH 2 I’m out 😢