So I’m 22, my boyfriend is 32.

I plan on moving in with him the end of March and to be honest I get really excited thinking about it.

Though, I get really scared thinking about it also. I feeling like I’m giving up on a lot of opportunity. I say this because he knows what he wants out of life.

I don’t and he knows that. I have no direction. He talks about kids already and that’s not even in my thoughts. (No he’s not asking me to have any right now) but he always bring up “when we have kids” “when he get married”... personally I feel like he’s already decided my future?

Yes we are together, and we’ve been together for a year now. I just feel scared about this whole thing like I’m selling myself short. Like there is way more to life than just moving in, getting married, having babies.

Yes that all sounds great. But not right now.

He’s a great guy, guys... he molds to my every need. But I just feel like there’s a lot of pressure to grow up. I really am still trying to figure my self out.