I recently went on a date, it’s was fine and we got along well. The guy asked me to go on a second date and even initiated plans, then when it came down to the day he made an excuse for not being able to go then ghosted.

I started messaging some other guy on a dating app, we were having great conversation and he seemed interested (he was sending multiple messages before I could even reply to some of the previous ones), then all of a sudden he stopped replying.

I’ve never ghosted anyone, but I have had convos where it’s like “okay, this has reached a dead end” and neither of us had anything left to say.

I guess I just don’t get it. Guys are weird. Dating is a lot of work.

This was more of a rant, but if you have any insight to offer, I’ll take it!