For my ladies❤❤❤

When I was in my teens and early twenties, I wish somebody would’ve told me what I’m about to tell y’all. No sugar coating. Yes, it’s long. Very long. BUT It was on my heart. Young ladies, please read this.

I’m not your mother or father. I’m a complete stranger who not far in age but learned so much. Please read.

I'm only 26 but to anyone that's 18-25, even my younger babies, trust me, I know whats going thru your mind. And I'm here to tell you that things AIN'T AS BAD AS YOU THINK.

Wish I could talk to the old me and tell her that I miss her. Just want to go back in time and tell her that it may seem like it's bad but it ain't all bad. If I could go back, I would love her a little more. Love the people around me a little more. Embrace the moment a little more. Wisdom comes with so much pain.Valuable pain.

Embrace who you are in your essence and embrace the people around you.

Take pictures. Spend time with your parents and grandparents. They are getting older and lonelier.

Next time your granny wants you to go to church with her, just go.

THE SMALL THINGS THAT YOU’RE TAKING FOR GRANTED WILL BE THE O N L Y THINGS YOU MISS AS TIME FLIES BY. Becase it FLIES by.

The negative only seem so bad because it hurts more than the positive. But make the positive things feel better than the negative. It will take time but do it. Practice seeing the bright side in a dark situation.

Spend more time on the ones who love you and less time trying to get someone to love you.

That guy that you’re stressing over, let him go. He don’t get better with time. He gets worse. The hurt gets worse.

Don’t stay with abusive men. It don’t mean he love you because he crazy. It means the opposite actually. He loves the control. Not you . He gone leave you for a stronger woman who don’t allow it. I promise.

A nigga ain’t gone love you if YOU don’t love you.

Love yourself so hard that a nigga ain’t got no choice.

Give that annoying guy a chance. You know? The cute but lame one that breaks his neck for you. The one that’s always there when you need him. The one that don’t even give you a reason to cry. He may not be the boy you want but there will come a point when you will look back and wish you acted like you had sense. By the time you want him, he’ll be gone forever.

Being mean ain’t cute. Having a bad attitude ain’t cute.

Be nicer to people. Don’t let the last time you talk to someone be on bad terms. You can talk to someone at 1:03 pm and at 1:33 pm, thirty minutes later, they can be gone from this earth. Never coming back. (This happened to me and my heart never felt nothing like it. I don’t think I will ever be the same)

Your mama ain’t ‘trippin’…she just done been there before.

Don’t do people how they do you, it will catch up to you…not them.

Spend more time with the friend that’s always there when you need her. Not the ones who only there when its time to party.

If your mama tell you that hoe ain’t your friend…THAT HOE AIN’T YOUR FRIEND.

Stop telling them hoes all your business. They telling it to other people when you're not around. Yes. They are.

PRAY MORE. GOSSIP LESS.

If they want to leave, let them.

It’s a whole world outside of social media. Don’t let life pass you by. Remember you can’t get time back. Get out in the world and live.

Stay away from the person that call everybody her bestie, sis or bro. They cause trouble in the long run.

When you hit rock bottom, because you will, don’t panic. It’s only to show you who for you. Pay attention to the people who not there. They don’t love you. Guess who gone be there? That annoying guy I mentioned. Guess who won’t be there? You know.

Let that nigga breathe. You don't have to be up under him all the time.

Stop fighting and being in mess all the time. Don't let your bad attitude and pride be the reason you have a felony and can’t even get a real job in the long run. Gone be stuck making 9.95 an hour for life because of some shit you not even gone remember in two years.(I don’t have a felony but someone needed this)

FORGIVE. FORGIVE. FORGIVE. FORGIVE. FORGIVE AND MOVE ON.

LEARN TO BE DONE. NOT BOTHERED. NOT MAD. JUST DONE.

Peace over chemistry. Stop letting that “I been knowing them since I was little” keep you attached to toxic people. The most loyal people in my life I didn’t know ten years ago.

Love DO NOT hurt. A lesson will.

Be more patient.

You will get your heart broken. A few times. It’s all good. When you’re losing your mind, just remember that we all went thru it at one point. Not just you.

YOU ARE NOT FAT. Trust me.

It’s gone come a time when you like “fuck it, I’m finna be a cold bitch” when you feel like your kindness is being taken for a weakness. Don’t change you. Change the people around you. You gone miss that “sweet girl”….trust me.

Eat healthy. Drink hella water. So glad I did.

Have safe sex. Cute niggas got stds too.

Go to the doctor more. Get your thyroids checked yearly. It's a huge problem in women that if left untreated for too long can cause major problems. VERY COMMON.

Spend more time with God.

Keep a diary.

It’s okay to have weak moments. Don’t let that moment turn into years though.

Apologize whn you know you’re in the wrong.

It’s not always them. Sometimes it’s you.

You gone lose a few people along the way. It’s always the least ones you expect.

Embrace them broke days. You're living more than you think, baby.

You're not as lonely as you think. Your soul is just trying to hang on to your innocence by protecting you from bad energies that's about to change the person you are.

The voice of God isn't loud. It's very gentle and faint but it’s there. Be still. You’ll hear it. But you have to be still.

All them bodies add up. Soul ties are real.

Leave that girl man alone. It's not okay. Karma is a bihh

All that turning up, liquor and drugs will catch up to you. STOP! Learn to have fun without those things. Your brain will thank you.

Stop letting niggas "beat it up" thinking its cute. Rough sex is harmful. Its damaging your cervix. I promise. This is where loving yourself come in. LOVE ALL OF YOU! ESPECIALLY YOUR CERVIX.

Your parents know A LOT but they don’t know everything. This is where spending time with God comes in. You gone need him.

Your heart means well but it don't always KNOW well. Be logical in these times. It's crucial.

If you want something done, do it NOW. You gone blink and years gone been passed.

Tell people you love them every chance you get.

Stop judging people. They ain’t perfect. Neither are you.

You ain’t been thru enough to know what you will and won’t do yet.

You’re not who you think you are. Life funny like that.

Life is beautiful. A lot of people didn’t make it to your age.

🗣LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL

Nothing is constant but change.

You will learn that your most darkest moments will teach you your greatest lessons. Pay attention more when you’re in these moments. Most of the time God will put you in the dark quiet place just so you can listen. Remember I said be still? When you feel like nobody is there, it’s because God isolated you. He had to. God don’t compete with noise.

PROTECT YOUR PEACE. PLEASE. IT’S SO IMPORTANT. It determines who you become.

Protect that woman you’re fighting to become. Period.

Karma is real. And it’s the realest thing you will ever know. TREAT PEOPLE RIGHT.

Even when it hurts, it will be okay 😘