C-section or natural

Sa • Fri, Feb 01

My first birth was long, tiring and traumatic. Baby had to be pulled out with a vacuum and i got a tear that took me a year and a half to finally be able to feel like myself, to have sex without pain. It also took me two months to bond with my baby, also i didnt get any painkillers. This time i’m considering a csection as i dont want to get torn again. What do you ladies advise?