I just have to get it off my chest. Yesterday I went to see my grandma and she asked if I changed my mind on the baby’s name yet because she doesn’t like it. I said no, and she said that’s a shame. When my son was born we didn’t tell anyone his name until he was born for this exact reason. Because we didn’t want to hear everyone’s negative opinions.

So on the heels of this my mother has been talking since I got pregnant about having a shower for me. Then it turned into a sprinkle (which is fine). Now it’s 2 weeks away and she let me know she hasn’t even sent out invites yet. She keeps telling me how much work it is, and how she can’t get the day before off. I told her it’s a sprinkle and it’s not a big deal. That a few appetizers and beverages would be just fine. I am not upset if she doesn’t have one. I just wish she wouldn’t talk about it if she never planned on following through. I have been buying my own stuff and pretty much planned on not having anything as it’s my second baby. It’s just disappointing. Ok, I’m done.