Ashamed of my own body... Tips?

Question

i’m so tired of just being heavy. my boyfriend has had so many pretty girls & i just feel like i’ve been such a downgrade. i’m 135lbs & i’m 5’0. thats literally not okay for me & ive been feeling like complete dirt lately.. is there any recommendations on how i can get back in shape or even shed a few pounds over the course of a few weeks? i’ve spent nights crying & ive distanced myself from my boyfriend on some nights.. it’s making me go into a depression & i just need a little guidance.

Answer

I understand what it’s like to have a boyfriend who’s had plenty of pretty girlfriends. Trust me, I think I’m his fourth or fifth and I’m honestly a downgrade. I WISH I was 135, I’m only 168. And hunny being 5’0 isn’t a bad thing if anything it’s a good thing. I’m 5’2 and being short is probably the best thing ever. Why? Because you can get nice clothes that fit you, you don’t need to worry about having long ass legs and unable to find jeans that fit. The most you’re gonna have to do is hem up your jeans a little bit. Or a long torso that every shirt looks like a crop top. You don’t need to be blonde, have flawless skin, a “perfect” body for your boyfriend to love you. If you did he wouldn’t be dating you in the first place. My boyfriend has this one ex I’m extremely jealous over. Just because she’s more popular then me, has bigger boobs/ass longer hair, beautiful eyes, no glasses, is smart. You can see why someone would be jealous right? Well she’s a hoe (I’m actually not afraid to say it), she sleeps around with other guys, cheated on my man 5 times in the run of four years they dated, spreads rumours about anyone and everyone, abuses people. Stop comparing yourself to your boyfriends ex’s it isn’t healthy for you. And by what I can tell you look absolutely gorgeous, I’m jealous! What I’m trying to say is that your boyfriend loves you for who you are, looks will NEVER matter in the end, they’re just a bonus. We all get old and wrinkly and eventually die. So dating someone for their looks would just be an idiotic move. Stop worrying so much. Just know him and his ex’s broke up for a reason and now you’re with him. Take pride in that.

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135?! Girl, you smaller than me. I’ve been tryna lose weight for 2 years now. I honestly think you’re perfect! Don’t waste time playing the “comparison” game with his past. You’re his now & that’s all that matters. If he loves you for who you are even with the way your body is? That’s all you need tbh. I was once that way the boyfriend I have rn. I was very insecure about my weight & my stretch marks (because I also have stretch marks behind my legs) back then but as time goes by, you start realizing that their focus is not just your body. I honestly feel and think that you shouldn’t need to lose anymore. Learn to love yourself first my sister! 😘

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I don’t know if this is helpful but seeing ex’s makes me want to work out. So now to motivate myself, I go to their instagram pages and have the best workouts of all time.  Try to think positive when negative thoughts come to you. And say positive things about yourself. I’ve always been hard on myself and I do the things I just told you.  Be kind to yourself 🙏🏾

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i do love myself. i just feel like i’ve let myself go & not taking care of my body has caused me to become shy about it, i used to never be like that. & seeing pictures of his ex just made me feel worse, i’ve never had a jealousy problem, it’s just that i wish i could do something fast about my weight. i know 135 isn’t much & everyone lols when i mention it. but i’ve been told by every medic professional that i am way too small to be 135. especially because i gained it over night, i used to be 115.

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