Thinking about breaking up with him

I have been on the fence recently about the guy I’ve been dating since December. I met him on bumble and we shared a lot of the same interested. Physically, he was not my type, but I gave him a chance anyway because he is super nice. He still is. He does everything for me. Which at first I was flattered, but now it’s sort of annoying. He always wants to do everything with me so much so that I feel like I do not get any space. When I try explaining this to him, he complains that I do not let him in on my personal life all because I do not sure minute details with him only “the bare minimum”. He wants me to go into detail with my plans without him. He showed up at my friends going away thing I planned for her at a bar because he assumed that he was invited without even asking me first. I am just getting super annoyed and he does not understand me and why I am the way I am even though I have explained it to him. My friend made a good point the other night that just because he treats me good doesn’t mean that I have to like him. Which I’ve been feeling recently like I had to because he does. But the other night at the bar creeped me out BIG TIME. I used to have a psycho ex who did stuff like that and when I tried explaining to him that it was a trigger for him to do that and he got mad saying he’s not people from my past. It’s just annoying to me that he won’t give me the space that I need and he doesn’t understand me. Then sometimes I feel like this is all in my head and I should give him a shot because he is nice to me. What do you guys think?