Vent about a funeral

Stacy

Okay so I found out two days ago that my Uncle Larry died. He was my mom's uncle but we all call him Uncle Larry. Well me and my family live in Indianapolis. He lived in West Virginia so his funeral is in West Virginia. I told my fiance that his funeral is Friday so we would have to leave Thursday together there for the funeral on Friday. my cousin is going to be driving so it'll be me my aunt my mom my grandma my cousin and my 4 month old son. There's no more room in the car my fiance is mad because I want to take our son with me so he can meet my half of the family in West Virginia. He is now telling our son that he will not see Daddy for a while and a whole bunch of other stuff. I wanted our son to go for support I know he's just a baby but it'll help and my fiance is mad because he can't go.

What should I do I want to go and I want our son to meet my half of the family we don't have a car he doesn't have a license so it's not like we can just pack up in another car and go. He told me that if one of his family members died in Kentucky I wouldn't let him take our son but I would he is an amazing little support buddy we are going through a hard time. He's mad because he will be here in the house with my dad and my brothers. But I'm just going to tell him to go stay a night or two at his dad's.

Am i the only one who thinks he is being an inconsiderate jerk?