Boy name help!

So were hoping to name our boy after my husbands grandparents thomas dean and sandra. Hubbys middle name is alexander. He really likes axel but im not sold on it. I feel like if we go with axel we cant use zander cause then we just butchered alexander and then we dont have anthing for sandra.

The only name we like out of these for a first is dean. Were open to double middles.

Any suggestions would help.

My hunby keeps vetoing all my suggestions. He seems to like country rustic names.