Me and my bf have been having arguments every day for a long time now. I’ve told him what I want him to change, to not be a jerk to me, if I’m going to stay with him. To not bitch at me about everything and put me down. And I told him I wanted space. But he won’t give me space and then is a jerk because I want space. He says he wants me to be happy and if breaking up and me moving out is what will make me happy then I should leave. He is acting like a break up won’t effect him at all.

I really don’t know what I want right now. I just want time alone to actually think. But he wants me to make up my mind now. I don’t get it, he could easily change and not be a jerk to me but instead he’s making me decide if I want to basically take him as he is, or leave. He doesn’t want to fight for me.

He’s not a horrible person. I think I have just lost feelings for him over time, resentment for things he’s done, and that is resulting in him being more of a jerk to me, because I’m not as loving towards him. In his eyes I’m probably more of the jerk.

I know you’re probably going to say “well you have to communicate, not push him away.” But I have communicated everything to him, there’s nothing more to say at this point.

Breaking up may be the best. But I cry when I get seriously thinking about it. He doesn’t cry, he doesn’t seem to be upset this is happening.

I’m not sure if I’m wanting advice or what here but any thing may help me get a clearer head.