Husband and baby?!

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Ladies I'm so lost right now! Can I get advice (not looking for any hate) my husband and I have been together 9 years. We have 2 beautiful children together. I had an appointment to get my tubes ties January 2nd 2019...anyways he threw a complete fit about it! So it didnt end up happening. Well I took a test yesterday and day before (8 test) and all are positive for pregancy well I told him this morning when he got home from work I was pregnant. .. He threw a complete fit and started treating me like garbage. Told me to "take a pill we don't need another baby" and acted if it was all my fault. Ladies I refuse to do this to my child that has no say on life! ( its not like we struggle financially or anything he has a great job and I'm a stay at home mom) I'm not sure what to do leave him or make him deal with his actions. .

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Why does he keep throwing fits regarding your body? Did he want more babies? Didn’t he realize that sex creates them? And that tying your tubes would stop that? Sorry you’re dealing with this. Hope you guys figure it out.

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Well doesn't he sound like a prize?  Tell him he threw a fit when you were taking steps to prevent it so now you will have another baby.  If he stops throwing fits like a child then adult conversations and decisions can happen.

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I would tell him he didn’t let you get you get your tubes tied so who’s to blame. I say have that baby with or without him.

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He’s a grown ass man who can deal w/his actions. I’m sorry he said such a thing. Men will have unprotected sex left & right yet feel all types of ways they get a girl pregnant. Was he not on board w/the tubal 100%? You definitely need to sit him down and talk it out.

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You guys need to talk - and he needs to say what he fuck is going on.
And you say he's throwing fits? Depending on what that includes I would honestly take my children and find somewhere to stay until he can get his shit together.
None of you deserves that.

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I’d make him deal with it! You tried to get your tubes tied and I would remind him of that!!! Oh and if he keeps on being rude and pitching his fits I would leave and take the other 2 with you to show him how u would feel about taking a “pill” because u don’t need more. But now I wouldn’t keep them from their father just scare him maybe

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The only thing that came to my mind, is if you had the surgery, he would have to responsible for he household for a couple of days and he doesn’t want to do that. Why else would he have a fit unless he wanted another baby. I’m surprised by this as you have been together 9 years. You guys never discussed having another baby? I’m glad to see he’s happy to have sex with you but not willing to be responsible. I’m not hating, I’m just ticked off at his behaviour. It’s your body and if you want this baby don’t let him convince you otherwise. Gosh I wish you the best!

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So you wanted your tubes tied but in the meantime didnt use protection even though you didnt want another baby, ever....?

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If you want the baby, keep it.

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I wouldn't just leave him yet. I'd have a conversation with him ! Try to work things out and make sure he understands that you decide what happens to your body!

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