Large inner labia

so my inner labia hangs down from my outer one and i’m really self conscious about it. i’ve always been self conscious of it but about a year ago my mom was in the bathroom with me because i was trying to put in a tampon and she asked what was hanging down. I told her it was my vagina. And because she had not seen other vaginas i guess she asked if i thought we should go to the doctor. I said no because i’ve had this problem since i went through puberty and it’s normal i know i know. anyways i really want my boyfriend to go down on me but i refuse to let him see it because i’m so self conscious. and it’s not that i think he would judge me it’s just the whole time he’s doing it all i will be thinking about is how it looks and what he’s thinking.