So I wanted to know if anyone has had to have an episiotomy done with their first birth and then had to have a second one with their second child . I’m terrified ,it was a rough recovery for me due to me having to get one and then sit through it getting stitched up because nothing they gave me numbed me . But anyways lol I just want to know how it went for you ? Anything to prevent it ? And I think the doctor did mine because my sons head wasn’t coming through and he had to have help (vacuumed) coming out .