Considering to quit

I’ve been smoking maybe past 3years everyday type ... but ive noticed how I’ve become ...I used to be outgoing active energetic social all the good things that a bubbly person has... but i started smoking to help me get over a situation. Since I can see how I have became anti social, loss of energy, lazy, etc. I don’t like it ...I’m all alone now. Cause when no one was there for me weed was but now it’s a total different view...I’m a stoner and i know I can’t blame it all on the weed ...am I the only one