Well first lemme tell you who he is. So after my real dad went to jail this guy my mom met who later became her bf helped us through everything after the situation by letting us move in with him after not leaving our old house with and credit. We (me, my brother and sister) were with him everyday and grew closer and closer with him. I was 11 at the time. He later became a dad figure to us and cared deeply for our family and we started treating him like one and he even asked if we see him as one and would want to get adopted one day if something happened to our mom. He’s a pastor and a very religious one as well. I’ve been dealing with this for awhile or thought that it was odd but now I’m 16 almost 17 and starting to remember things and affecting me very deeply and now I’m getting uncomfortable and scared. It all started a few months in to moving in and he took us out to slushees and to get one we had to give him a kiss and my younger brother and sister did but I wasn’t comfortable and refused to and he got upset and said I wouldn’t get one but bc i was younger I did it anyways bc i wanted a slushee. Moving on forward. I was 13 and after showering I changed in the bathroom and he accidentally walked in on me and saw everything and I was very hurt about that. He said he didn’t know I was in there but at that time I thought he knew. Sometimes I would sleep with him just us 2 in bed and I would get back scratches which later became butt scratches too. When he would hug me while taking naps he has his pelvis pushed up against my butt and I felt funny. He would sometimes smack my butt when I walk pass too or when we are playing around he but my butt once and I told him I don’t like anyone’s mouth on my butt. More months go by and when we sit in the car he would alwaysssss put his hand on my thigh while driving when my mom wasn’t there. One time we were in a room and talking and I was standing and then he took a pillow and covered his erection with it. He explained to me why and that men get it out of nowhere sometimes but recently what affected me was that my friend boy told us that boys don’t get that . They only do when they think of something or when they’re turned on which idk and am confused right now. He always wants us calling him dad now but I’ve been uncomfortable with that due to the situation with my real dad and he gets mad when I don’t call him that. As I get older from age 14-16 especially, he still wants me sleeping with him when I’m over at his house even when him and my mom aren’t together since he’s helped us and is a dad. I’ve been thinking about it and thought that I’m too old for that and am uncomfortable and explained that to him that I’m too old and a girl my age needs her space and shouldn’t do that but he disagreed and said that any age is okay if you love you’re dad. And he would get sooo upset and pouty about it and sometimes he would win and I do end up laying/snuggling with him. I would be very hurt and very uncomfortable especially at the fact that he’s trying to get his way at something he knows I’m un comfortable with. As a pastor he did his bible “research” and found out about naturism and decided to do it and encourage our family to do it. He said I didn’t have to do it but I had to be prepared to see him naked because he thinks God wanted us to be ourselves and that’s how we were supposed to be in the first place, clothless as naturist. During that time, he walked around the house naked and I would see his penis all the time then. I was VERY uncomfortable and didn’t believe in my beliefs that it was okay to do it. In the mornings he’ll come to my bed and pull the covers up and lay with me when I’m still sleeping sometimes WHILE he’s in his naturist state. He would press his thing against me and I would feel it on my bum due to the position I was in lying on my side butt exposed to him(I’m not naked) sometimes I would feel the tip on my thigh when I’m wearing shorts and would scoot away slowly as much as I can but it never worked. Now he doesn’t do that anymore because he did more research and found out that’s not what God wanted and apologized. I expressed that I need more space as a teen girl and cannot receive all love and this and that but he is always against that idea from me. I don’t see him as much more because we are both busy but lately I’ve been thinking abut all of this from the time I met him and realized what ACTUALLY was going on and is it something bad and is it normal. He says he loves us like we are his real children and would do anything for us but the more i think the more I become uncomfortable and want to cry because of this. I feel touched a lot and I absolutely hate it and never fully expressed it because I didn’t know if had different intentions on me or that’s just the person he is as a dad because every parent is different with love but either way I feel so hurt and it’s been bothering me and i cannot trust him all the way as i think about it now ! Can someone tell me what they think .. is this a serious problem or inappropriate and thanks for reading the entire thing and I’m sorry but I wanted everyone to understand what actually happened so you can hear it !!! LMK PLZ AND LMK WHAT TO DO!!!!!!