My boyfriend and I are getting very serious. We’re about to move in together and we’ve been discussing marriage. Our relationship is great. He’s a truly amazing man. A god send. Im just nervous because he has 3 boys. 15, 8, and 2. All by different women. I’m not threatened by his past relationships. My biggest threat is learning to cook and building solid relationships with his sons that involves a level of trust and understanding. His last marriage fell apart because she didn’t have children and couldn’t handle the pressure of taking on the responsibilities of a step parent of 3 boys even though she felt pretty confident about it in the beginning. So now he’s extremely cautious and concerned when it comes to me with his sons. We’ve gone on dates with two of his children 2 & 8 year old and they are great kids. 2 yo is energetic and always asking for me. 8 yo is respectful and gets along great with my kid. (I care for my little cousin). I haven’t met the 15 yo as of yet. Im just wondering what tips or experiences can you ladies offer me regarding stepping into the role and building solid relationships as a bonus mom ?