Selfish partner

Anyone else out there with me? I feel so overwhelmed. All these strange things going on, changing every day. My moods are all over the place and I am constantly worried that something bad might happen. My partner’s response is to make it about him and check out on me. If I say anything it’s like stepping on a hornets’ nest. He’ll just go back to whatever i said that set him off, and he feels justified. I feel so isolated.