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DTR- help me please

When is it “too soon” to dtr (define the relationship). I have been with someone for almost 9 months but neither of us have said that we are anything exclusive. So when I asked him, he just gave me a bunch of gibberish and not the answer I was looking for. We kiss and hook up... is it just a game to him? Did I ask too soon? Help please