Second C section

I’m having my second C section beginning of April and I’m starting to stress. I am so anxious and excited to meet my little angel but I have a toddler who is a big mama’s boy!! He won’t fall asleep with dad and heavily relies on me since I’m a stay at home mom. I guess my question is how long did it take you ladies to recover the second time around with a C section???? When were you able to pick up your toddler and feel slightly back to normal? I hate not being able to do much my little one needs me. 😕