Bf is selfish in bed

My boyfriend is not good in bed. He does not try to put any effort into foreplay. He just goes through the motions. He will just rush through it to get to the sex. Then I send him articles to read he reads laughs it off. Meanwhile I'm giving him the best bj in town. Hes very big, the sex and the oral sex is bad idk if its cuz hes big or I'm never turned on. It's like a chore for me to have sex w him we live together and he wants it everyday. I dont know what to do how to solve this?