Genital Herpes?

I literally went to the gynecologist yesterday & she told me she was almost completely sure i have herpes. She did two cultures and said she sent them to the lab and that she can’t say definitely what it is or isn’t because there is a chance it could be something else. Although, while she was doing the culture she said i have the symptoms of herpes, the sores hurt SO BAD!!! Also my legs were hurting in my pelvic area. Any advice or anything you guys could tell me? I’ve only had 1 partner and they are going to get tested this week , i’m so scared , yesterday was terrible i felt dirty , worthless , just BAD. Today i am doing okay and accepted the fact that if that’s what i have than i can only hope for the best after this outbreak is gone. I’m so scared , will the outbreaks stop being so bad as time goes on ?? please send me advice !!! thankyou !

UPDATE: I have HSV1