I want a partner, not someone else to be in charge of.

I shouldn’t have to remind you to do every fucking thing! We’ve been together how long? You know the trash needs to be taken out. You know your laundry doesn’t need to be in the middle of the floor when there’s a whole ass basket. You know this is your fucking child and you need to also nurture her. Why are women expected to remind men, and make excuses for men all the time because “oh he’s just a man, they’re dumb. They just need to be reminded” but if I didn’t cook or clean without being told let alone fucking reminded I’d be an unwifeable lazy woman right? If I didn’t feed the baby or change her without being told, she’d wouldn’t survive. No one ever reminds me to do my part. No one has ever even had to tell me to do my part. I’m just fed up with having to remind and remind and ask. 🗣🗣🗣Fuck. I’m exhausted. & before you say it, yes we have hand plenty of calm talks. Nothing ever lasts. Then I’m annoying and always nagging because I want a fucking partner not someone else to keep up after.