LGTBQ in the dating scene

What is it so hard to find someone? I’m on a lot of the dating apps I’m 21 looking for something serious.. so many people want a three way with their bf and some other girl or just a fling ! What’s with that?

Why is it so hard to find someone who wants something serious? Is my criteria too much?

-something serious down the line

-potential life partner (doesn’t always mean marriage, if my partner would want to get married I don’t have an issue with it , I just don’t feel the need to prove my love to someone on w piece of paper)

-someone who like animals

-who wants and love kids

-family oriented

-likes sweets(I’m a baker)

-someone in Mtl

BONUS- if they want to eventually live in the country side

I’ve done long distance before I’m ok with it but I would rather not do it again .. it’s the main reason my gf and I split

Is it too much? What do you think?

Am I being too picky..?